The 90-day unapologetic, pattern-breaking program to stop leaking your energy clinging to him & become unstoppable in life and secure in self.
Secure Your Spot✦ Doors open May 30th · We start June 1st ✦
Are you someone who loves hard, feels emotions deeply — and finds yourself:
Here's the truth: you don't just want that gut-wrenching feeling to go away. You want to feel so secure and powerful as you build a life you actually love — and that loves you back.
You need absolute inner peace.
You need unshakeable trust in yourself so you can cut off what is sucking your soul & make bold decisions without feeling like you're flailing.
You need the kind of energy and confidence that makes you unstoppable in life and love because you know you're that girl.
You need to wake up every day and know you've GOT A F@$&ING GRIP.
Trying to heal and ditch the toxic cycles without addressing the attachment pattern underneath — useless.
You've tried everything to make the emotional angst stop.
When you follow my signature framework, Get A Grip, you'll be wondering where the hell I've been all along.
Clear the emotional charge. Release what's stored in your body. Reprogram what's been running the way you operate in love and life — and build a life so full and free, there's no room for anything that doesn't choose you.
For a moment
This is exactly what Get A Grip was built to help you do.
And then there's me
I'm Kaila.
After spending years stuck in my own toxic cycles, studying attachment theory, diving deep into somatic work, and investing deeply into understanding the subconscious mind — I saw a massive gap in the healing space.
The love letter method, scripting him back, the "let him" advice — I tried all of it. But none of it was ever going to work. Because I wasn't even sure I wanted that type of love back. I wanted me back.
Most healing programs have made the nervous system trendy. It looks good in a caption, sounds good on a reel — but what they're packaging as a cute and speedy-quick-get-everything-you-want-life, they didn't actually get cute or fast. So you're thrown something surface level that leaves out the in-depth emotional processing that actually dissolves the patterns, and you're left wondering why it hasn't worked yet.
You know you are a badass woman at your core, and you've BEEN ready to do something that'll actually work. That's exactly why I created Get A Grip — so it's tailored to where you currently are.
And here's what that looks like…
Here's how I made it different
Six modules dripped out over 90 days — because your body needs space to absorb and implement, not have everything thrown at it at once. Every tool you need to rewire at the source and become UNSTOPPABLE.
Real-time coaching, support, and the kind of direct answers that actually move the needle. You bring the situation — you leave with the shift.
Daily support, accountability, and a group of women who actually want to Get A Grip. No fluff. No performance. Just women doing the work together.
The Journey
Days 1–20
The Foundation
Going to the source. Understanding the pattern and beginning the rewire.
Days 21–55
The Release & Rewiring
Releasing the trapped energy. The rewire in action — this is where things start to move.
Days 56–90
Embodiment
Navigating the withdrawals and becoming her — for good.
This is for you if
so hard it feels like death.
one minute everything was perfect, the next you were being pushed away — and you're still trying to make sense of it.
but even out of it, you're still thinking about him, still replaying the same scenarios, still not fully free. The pattern didn't leave once you were out — it followed.
thinking that'll fix your heart — when it really is just a bandaid on your reality.
and you're ignoring all of it.
and right now you're obsessing over someone who doesn't want you.
A little honesty
If you're looking for strategies to get him back — this isn't that. Get A Grip is about getting YOU back. If that's not what you're here for yet, that's okay.
If you're looking for a quick fix that skips the actual work — the women who transform are the ones who show up for themselves even when it's hard. That commitment has to be you.
If you want someone to just tell you what to do every step of the way — Get A Grip is going to rebuild your trust in yourself. That means learning to hear your own voice again, not outsource it.
The real questions
90 days. Long enough to actually rewire the pattern. Short enough that you stay in momentum the whole way through.
Open enrollment is happening now — you can secure your founding member spot today. The program officially launches May 30th and we kick off together June 1st. The earlier you enroll, the sooner you start to Get a Grip and secure future you.
Bi-weekly live Q&A calls with me. You bring what's coming up, you get real-time coaching, you leave with a shift. Can't make it live? Replays are available.
Perfect. No experience needed. The framework walks you through it step by step. All you need is a willingness to actually do the work.
Get A Grip isn't just about one man. It's about the pattern underneath that runs every area of your life — your friendships, your worth, your self-trust, your nervous system. If you've ever clung to what didn't fully choose you, this is for you.
This methodology works if you do it. Trust the process and give it time to integrate. Most women begin feeling significantly different within the first few weeks.
Yes. Option 2 is two monthly payments of $254. Klarna, Affirm, and Afterpay are also available at checkout.
No. Get A Grip is a coaching program — not therapy or mental health treatment. I am not a licensed therapist. This work pairs beautifully with therapy if you're already in it, but it doesn't replace it. If you're in crisis or experiencing severe mental health symptoms, please work with a licensed professional.
If you're already thinking about a refund, this program is not for you. The people who come in here are committed, not flaky. Because of the nature of digital products and the depth of work we'll be doing together, all sales are final. The women who get the most out of this are the ones who commit fully from the start.
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Three ways in
Pick the path that works for you. Lock in the founding member rate before doors close — or join the waitlist and we'll hold a spot for you.
First in line when doors open May 30th — we start June 1st
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